Christmas is Forgiveness ...

I have known Otto for some time since 2011 or 2012, referred his services to some friends and introduced him to friends. He seemed so genuinely surprised to see sex of three and more. At one group event, he got a bit tipsy together with Paulo and Tauro. He tried to make a bottom out of Tauro who was drunk and it was Paulo who protected or cared for Tauro - that is where the friendship between Paulo and Tauro started. Tauro is a nice person, one of those who could not refuse or directly say "no".  Otto tried to develop something, Tauro replied via text at times but never met him to my knowledge. Last September 2012, he tried to break in my pad, he was drunk and he though we were all inside having an orgy. Me and my Mom was actually in Urdaneta, Pangasinan. The Barangay tanod went inside to find him having broken already a glass window and pushed away my furniture inside - so helter skelter! Drunk as it is, he refused to be subdued and was taken away and locked up, we did not press charges. But in the process he had hurt some tanod and police - he was instead charged with Resisting arrest. Since then, I never allowed him to be back inside my pad .... till now.. have to forgive..

Karl is someone I got to know this year and from my bed, he got to know other people as well. He stopped going to my pad for he thought the person he met is the one.. he apparently to be the one who hurt his heart. Really, being in love - he would not accept that he was "played" upon and rather chose to believe the excuses being texted to him, basically saying "sorry I am busy with work". I might have been wrong but my intentions are good, I asked him to drop by and with a friend's help showed the text messages between his 'ex' and my friend. He was quiet and then simply stop to text and visit. I guess it was not only forgiveness from me to Otto. It appeared that Karl took a step to forgiveness, he dropped by again .... 

So there, that is the background of the two - for a threesome! Thus, the title, Christmas is forgiveness ... but forgetting is not easy it appears. We had a Christmas party that ended in an orgy, and which basically showed both of the above have not moved on. Otto texted and called asking why Tauro was there ... duhhhhh..  while Karl stopped texting back, which sends the signal...

Oh well, i can only hope time shall make them move on... and completely heal.. in the mean time: Happy new Year!